Private Hire

The Grey Lady is available for private hire for specials occasions with the option of set menus, buffets, music performed by a live band, DJ or the facility to use your own playlists.

If you are interested in finding out more about hiring out The Grey Lady, please contact us using the form below.


  • I hired the upstairs room for a birthday party. Lydia and her team looked after us very well. The food was great, plenty of it and very tasty. The guys behind the bar were very efficient and friendly so I would definitely recommend this venue.
    402Lindag
  • Carlos, Lydia and the Grey Lady staff offered great customer service planning for Breast Cancer Kent charity event 11/10/2019. Fantastic venue, and Over the Edge were awesome, as usual. Great atmosphere, company and dancing. Thank you
    Patrickryan2015
  • We had our engagment party in The Grey Lady music lounge which is above the restaurant. We vistited lots of venues in Tunbridge Wells and are so pleased we chose this one! We ordered Italian buffet food for 60 people which was fantastic. The food was served a few hours into the party and guests have all said how good it was. The staff made the evening completely stress free and Lydia invited us to come to the venue before to set up decorations so it looked exactly how we wanted it to.
    Natalie T